Ok well here it is New Year's Eve and I will start my cooking for New Year's Day!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Britani is back X 2
Ok well here it is New Year's Eve and I will start my cooking for New Year's Day!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Two nights of cooking...

So home is where we stayed!!!

~Till Tomorrow~
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
The Heat is ON!!!

Monday, December 28, 2009
It was a Law and Order kind of day



Sunday, December 27, 2009
A day of rest!

I slept in and cooked a new recipe for Breakfast!! It was yummy and will be trying it again!! We decided that we will come today after church and eat so I have some of my items cooking in the crock pot and I will do the final touches when I get in from Church! I am glad all the festivities are over and I have nothing planned for the new year except my regular lunch of Black-eyed Peas and Collard Greens!! And lots of other fixing to go with it!! And that is just something that I enjoy doing!!! So you all have a good day and just think it is 363 days until Christmas!! LOL!!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Christmas Day 2009
Then we moved Christmas to Tracy's and Alex and Avery had seen their gifts under my tree and they were wanting to open them so bad!! Here they are with the big Barbies I got for them!! They really seemed to love them!!
Well after this day was over and I sat down and thought about the entire day this is how I looked!! Well not really but I did have a big ol' smile on my face!!
You all have a great day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Christmas Eve 2009

Now we will move on the day at hand...Christmas Eve 2009!!! I can not believe that it is here!! And just about everything is done...Well except I have to go to the grocery store and do some cooking!! But that is not a big deal! I can get that done and hopefully be able to sit back and enjoy the day...We are all missing Justin but are adjusting to this deployment! I have my moments and still just don't deal with it so good but I have gotten a lot better that I was!
So, today we will cook for our gathering with My Family!!! We all gather at my church Fellowship Hall because we have a rather large family and this is a good place for us to go and have plenty of sitting room and everyone just enjoys the night! We don't have to cook a full meal it is just "Finger Foods"!!! Sometimes I like that the best!!! :) Then we will come home and A friend of mine is taking cookies to the Airport and passing out to the Soldiers that will be leaving to go to Afghanistan and I am thinking that I may go and join her! After that it is off to dream land and then wake up in the morning to get to see what Santa brings us!!
I hope that you all have a wonderful day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Austin Michael Parrish #11
This picture is a good many years old...just look at that face!!!

And still to this day he is still sweet and has that smile that melts your heart!! I hope he has a wonderful day!!

Well Jeff was out of town last night and I went to the Mall with Rhonda and Robert and got in lots of good laughs!!! Even after my choking spell at Wendy's!! I get choked very easy and I well needless to say when it happens I can't speak, I can't drink, and I can't cough...I just have to let it work its way down and then I get left with this stuck feeling in my throat for a little while after sometimes even can still feel the effects the next day!! I have always gotten choked easily and I do not have any health problems!! Just one of those things...some of my other family members have the same issue. So maybe it is inherited!!
But anyways you all have a great day!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
How did I ever agree to this...
Every person is different when it comes to deployments, but this is the advice that I give to those going through their first deployments. It's worked for us during both of my husband's deployments to Iraq. It's never easy, but you can do it with God's help. The Lord will ultimately give you the strength and comfort that you need to get through this deployment.
1) Pray - protect your Marine with a bubble of prayer. He will feel the prayers.
2) Keep living - do not do daily countdowns at this point in time as it is usually counter productive, and this far out, the days aren't exact. Instead, count down month to month until you get closer to the end date. Make sure you have activities to look forward to at least once per month. Do not sit around the computer waiting for contact with him (unless you have a set time when you know he will be on the computer). Keep your cell phone on you, but do not turn down activities just because he "might" call.
3) Schedule Time - give yourself XX minutes to cry each day (if needed). Once you are done with that time period, you need to stop and think positively. If you start to feel down, do something that lifts you up (and pray). Have some projects that will make you focus on others and not yourself.
4) Mail - keep those packages & mail going to them. Mail is a huge moral booster. Try to keep mail upbeat whenever possible. Do not expect to receive mail back from him. He needs to focus on his job there. He'll do his best to stay in contact, but it's not always easy.
5) Encouragement - be a source of encouragement for him. First deployments are hard. He will probably get down at some point. He will get homesick, and he will get discouraged. The best thing you can do is stay upbeat and give him the encouragement that he needs. Let him know that you love him, you are proud of him, and you're praying for him.
I recieved this from a blogger friend that her husband is in the USMC and I appreciate it a lot! I will take all the help I can get. One thing I have learned in the past 18 months that Marines and their families stick together!! And they help each other all the time!!
Oh and by the way...I just got off the phone with Justin!! He is good and been busy...which Justin loves and is now where he can call some!! Yipeee...Today is a GREAT day!!!!
You all have a great day!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Monday, December 21, 2009
And there was born this day....
205 days until Justin comes home!!!
Sunday, December 20, 2009
And on he goes!

~Till Tomorrow~
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Breakfast...Candy...Justin...
207 DAYS UNTIL JUSTIN COMES HOME!!!
You all have a good day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Oh what joy children bring
And look at this precious baby!!! Avery can really cheese a camera!!
Well yes I did get that post on facebook and then I got to chat with him on myspace (ourspace)!!! And then low and behold if anyone could get to a phone to call his mama My Marine did!!! He went and bought a phone card and called me!!! I sure enjoyed hearing his voice!! But I will take a chat on the computer any time!!!
If you look at this map he is in Kyrgyzstan!! He will be moving on to Afghanistan by Monday!! He only has 900 miles to go!!

208 days until Justin comes home!!!
You all have a great day!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Not Alot
~Till Tomorrow~
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
My Brothers Party and 210 days left
Kelly, Crystal and Suzanne
Well everything always works out!! I was so dreading the final phone call from Justin!! But we just happen to still be a the party and got the call from him and yes it broke my heart and yes I had to shed a few tears and had to go get a quick squeeze from Ganky! But, it really helped being with family when it happened!! They got me right back into a smile and got my mind off of things!!
So starting today we will begin a countdown!!!
210 days until Justin comes home!!
I hope that you all have a great day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
12-15-09

"He is my whole world and I love him so very much!!!"

Well I guess I will go and drink my coffee and try to clear my face up!! Those babies Alex and Avery don't understand me being upset so I try not to be in front of them!!! You all have a great day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Monday, December 14, 2009
Back at Home...
And well Britani is just enjoying the fact that she got the entire back seat to herself!! She likes to sleep late and of course with not having too much time this weekend we did NOT do any late sleeping!! So she was just doing a little rest time and of course the cell phone is close by for the texting time!!
We have decided that we will being doing a countdown until Justin comes back! We are gonna be working on that even though we don't know an exact date we are going to estimate!! He doesn't actually leave until Wednesday early morning so the count-down will start then!!
You all have a great day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Sunday, December 13, 2009
A Special Day
So here are my two Marines that have been together since bootcamp and will be deployed together!! They just are so much fun to be around and really make you not think about the fact that they are leaving in just a couple of days!! I did meet one of Justins squad leaders and this is his 3rd deployment and he really made me feel much better about all this! He explained that they have satellite phones and they let them use them most of the time once a week!!! And that it is not that bad over and that they will only be gone 7 months since they are sending so many troops over!! :) I can do 7 months!!! :)
And here are the 4 kids we had to entertain us this weekend!! Look how happy they all are!!
Well this was just a great weekend but as most say all good things must come to an end!! I will be heading home today!!! And today is a very special day!! It is someones Birthday....
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to Traaaccyy
Happy Birthday to you!!!!!!
You are very special to me and I love you with all my heart!! I will be home soon and will see you in a later!! Have a good day!!
I hope that you all have a wonderful day and keep my Marine in your prayers!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Can you see what I see??
Well it is late and I am gonna go get some rest!!! I will enjoy my time with Justin and cherish every moment I have with him this weekend!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Friday, December 11, 2009
Camp Lejeune....
Now on a more silly note: Yesterday, I was working at Tracy's and I had sent her a text asking about some candy that someone had given me that was expired and was asking if she thought it would make us sick...already eaten a piece!! So she text me back and said " No. If it was gobbas make you sick then it would have already" GOBBAS??? so I text back and said " I am gobbas throw it away anyways!!" Then she responded to me are you a turkey...she did not realize that she had sent it to me first like that!! LOL!! (gobbas=gonnas)
So a little later She sent me another text that read: I got Moxie Avery and Lexa Dolls! So then my reponse to her was..."Are you drinking while you are shopping? ...Your spelling is BAD!!!" Then I got a phone call...Moxie and Lexa are Dolls that she got for the girls!!! I have teenagers I had never heard of them I thought she got Movies for Avery and Alex Dolls!!! Does anyone out there see where I was so confused yesterday? She and I thought each other had became drinkers during all of this deployment stuff!!! But we aren't we just get a little confused sometimes...So funny!!! I am glad that we can laugh at some of the stuff we do!!!
Ok well...Going to see my Marine today and I will have pictures for you tomorrow!!! Have a great day!!
Let's kick deployments butt one day at a time!!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Thursday, December 10, 2009
We Celebrate 21 years today!!!
So today we celebrate our 21st Anniversary!!
I love him more today than I did when we got married!!
He has to be special to put up with a true full blooded HOWELL!! HA!!
Our daughter Britani is cooking us dinner tonight!!
You all have a great day!!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
I love this...

Well with this not gonna be on for a while then I guess I will just sit and write Justin letters every day!! I enjoyed the finale but will not discuss it just in case some one that wanted to watch it hasn't....TRACY!! The transformation of these people was just amazing!!!
Have a great day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Projects for 2
So much for my Monday...It flew by! Still nothing except I got his new address and my do's and dont's about mailing him things!
You all have a great day!!
~Till Tomorrow~
Monday, December 7, 2009
How Do I...
And then as soon as the funeral was over I had to tell My Marine to go and be safe and fight for his country and to make us all even more PROUD than what we all already are! He is so handsome and he is my whole world and I love him so very much!! I AM PROUD of HIM...He is a good guy and he loves me so much! He loves his family more than any 20 year I have ever seen!! And you could tell yesterday as he was getting ready to leave that his family loves him TOO!!
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Christmas Morning 2009
Tracy and the kids came over Friday night because they had other plans and was not gonna be able to make it for breakfast and brought him this!!
He decided to check out his computer while I cooked Breakfast!!
Here comes Ganky and Pa...Ganky stayed for breakfast but Pa just came by to see Justin for a minute and wish him a safe return!!
What is Ganky doing....Oh hugging her Marine!!!
Even Pa got him a picture made with him!!!
He may be a Marine and 20 years old but he still loves seeing what Santa brought!
Christmas Morning 2009 with Justin was great!! Now I have to send him back and not know when I will get to see him again!!! He is not sure when he will be leaving but we know he will be gone in the next 2 weeks!! :( Please just keep him in your prayers and pray that I can keep my nerves together!!! This has kept me in tears and I get such a headache from crying!! :( Also Pray for the Family of Ms. Louise...we will be having her funeral today! Speaking from experience...this will be one of the hardest days of their lives!!
I hope that you all have a Special Sunday!!
~Till Tomorrow~